Sending Sympathy Cards to Friends
Sending sympathy cards, or bereavement cards as they are sometimes called, is always a thoughtful gesture. Sending a sympathy card to a friend is a way to help your friend know that you care deeply. No matter how close you are, at times like these it can be difficult to express your feelings. Sometimes you fear making your friend uncomfortable, or you may not be sure what to say when trying to compose your condolence message.
There are a host of choices that you can consider when perusing sympathy cards to find just the right one that you know will suit your friend. Because you are aware of things that are special to your friend, you will be able to look for something that you know will show your fondness. By the same token, you will be able to avoid using a word or symbol that you know your friend would not appreciate. For instance, if you heard your friend express distaste for lilies, you would make sure that the card you selected did not have that traditional flower as part of the design.
Of course, no matter what the design is or what the words are, the gesture alone is enough to be one of the things that you can do at a time when you know you must do something to help your friend. Sympathy cards are an obvious first step in helping those we care for begin to heal after the loss of a loved one.
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